In Argentina, social customs and etiquette are influenced by European traditions (especially Italian and Spanish) and Latin American warmth. While Argentinians are generally friendly and welcoming, certain behaviors can be considered rude or inappropriate. Here’s what to avoid:
1. Not Greeting Properly
Greetings are very important in Argentina. Men and women typically greet with one kiss on the cheek (even between men in informal settings). Ignoring a greeting or handshake can come across as cold or unfriendly.
2. Being Too Direct or Blunt
Argentinians prefer polite, friendly conversation. Being too direct, especially in criticisms or disagreements, may be seen as rude or aggressive. A little small talk before serious discussions is appreciated.
3. Not Engaging in Social Conversations
People in Argentina love to chat, especially about topics like football, food, and family. Being too quiet, avoiding eye contact, or not engaging in conversations can be seen as distant or unfriendly.
4. Disrespecting Mate Etiquette
Mate (a traditional herbal tea) is a big part of Argentine culture. If someone offers you mate, refusing without a good reason can be seen as impolite. Also, never stir the straw (bombilla) or wipe it before drinking, as this is considered disrespectful to the server.
5. Expecting Strict Punctuality
Argentina operates on a relaxed concept of time. Social events often start later than planned, and showing up exactly on time to a casual gathering may surprise your host. However, for business meetings, it’s still best to be punctual.
6. Making Negative Comments About Football
Football (soccer) is a passion in Argentina, and people are deeply loyal to their teams. Speaking negatively about a local team, especially Boca Juniors or River Plate, can offend die-hard fans.
7. Not Using Proper Table Manners
Argentinians take their meals seriously. It’s considered rude to leave the table early, eat with your hands (except for pizza and empanadas), or place your hands under the table. Always wait for the host to start eating before you begin.
8. Talking About Sensitive Topics
Avoid discussing topics like politics, the Falklands/Malvinas conflict, inflation, or past dictatorships unless an Argentinian brings them up first. These can be very emotional subjects.
9. Ignoring Personal Space in Conversations
Argentinians are warm and expressive, often standing close during conversations and using touch to emphasize points. Stepping back too much can be seen as distant or unfriendly.
10. Not Saying Goodbye Properly
Just as greetings are important, so are goodbyes. Simply leaving without saying goodbye to everyone individually can be seen as rude. If you’re in a social gathering, take the time to acknowledge each person before leaving.
By following these cultural norms, you’ll have a more enjoyable and respectful experience in Argentina!