In Angola, cultural etiquette is influenced by African traditions, Portuguese colonial heritage, and local customs. Certain behaviors can be considered rude or inappropriate, so here are key things to avoid:
1. Not Greeting People Properly
- Greetings are very important in Angolan culture.
- A common greeting is a handshake with direct eye contact, often followed by a friendly hug or a pat on the back (for men).
- Women may greet with a handshake or a cheek kiss (depending on familiarity).
- Ignoring greetings before starting a conversation is considered impolite.
2. Being Too Direct or Blunt
- Angolans prefer politeness and indirect communication.
- Being too direct, aggressive, or confrontational (especially in public) can be seen as disrespectful.
- Criticism should be given in a subtle and diplomatic way.
3. Refusing Hospitality
- Angolans are very hospitable, and refusing an offer of food, drink, or hospitality outright can be rude.
- If you donât want to accept, politely say “Muito obrigado/a, mas jĂĄ comi” (Thank you, but I already ate).
4. Disrespecting Elders
- Elders are highly respected, and failing to acknowledge them properly can be offensive.
- Always greet older people first as a sign of respect.
- Using formal titles (Senhor/Senhora) instead of first names is expected in professional or formal settings.
5. Public Displays of Affection (PDA)
- While hand-holding is common, kissing or hugging in public (especially between couples) is frowned upon in traditional areas.
- In cities like Luanda, attitudes are more relaxed, but discretion is still advised.
6. Discussing Politics or Colonial History Carelessly
- Avoid criticizing the Angolan government, discussing colonial history insensitively, or making negative remarks about past conflicts (e.g., the Civil War).
- These topics can be very sensitive and should only be discussed if locals bring them up.
7. Using the Left Hand for Giving or Eating
- The left hand is traditionally considered unclean in Angolan culture.
- Always use your right hand when giving or receiving items, eating, or greeting someone.
8. Pointing at People or Making Hand Gestures
- Pointing directly at someone with your finger is considered rude.
- Instead, use your whole hand or nod in their direction.
- Making the “thumbs-up” gesture can be offensive in some contexts.
9. Dressing Inappropriately
- Dress modestly in rural areasârevealing clothing (short skirts, low-cut tops) may be seen as inappropriate.
- In Luanda and major cities, fashion is more modern, but business attire is expected in formal settings.
10. Taking Photos Without Permission
- Always ask before taking pictures of people, especially in rural areas.
- Avoid photographing military buildings, police, or government officesâthis can lead to serious trouble.
11. Expecting Strict Punctuality
- “African Time” is common, meaning that social events may start late.
- However, for business meetings, arriving on time is expected (even if your host is late).
12. Eating Before Others Are Served
- If dining with locals, wait for the host to invite you to eat before starting your meal.
- Sharing food is common, so donât be surprised if people eat from the same dish.
13. Displaying Wealth Too Openly
- Flashing expensive items (jewelry, phones, cash) can attract unwanted attention.
- It may also be considered boastful in a country where many people face economic hardship.
14. Not Learning Basic Portuguese
- Portuguese is Angolaâs official language, and while some people speak English or local languages, expecting everyone to understand English is rude.
- Learning a few phrases like “Obrigado/a” (Thank you) or “Bom dia” (Good morning) is appreciated.
By respecting these cultural norms, youâll make a positive impression and have a smoother experience in Angola! đ